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Newspaper reporter Cui Yue

Recently, Lily network dating sites during the Spring Festival were put in a "left men left women" considered to be "forced" the ad caused a lot of controversy,woolrich uomo,http://www.lionbrandyarnstudio.com/cgi-bin/faq-search.cgi, even friends launched the "people resist Lily network" activity on the microblogging requires lily Net remove the advertising, event supporters,jordan pas cher, to "kidnap and stale marriage and moral concept of struggle in the end." As of yesterday,woolrich outlet, 20:30, more than 28,000 users expressed opposition Lily network of this "forced" advertising, only a mere 1,200 people appreciate.

Many of the "left men left women", said that although he still single, for marriage and family, their hearts have been full of desire, but this in the name of family "forced" himself expressed disgust,http://cp.sendto.cn/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=808693, and "not from the firm."

"Forced" on Advertising

Meng, 27, graduate schools, in an Internet company engaged in product operations related work, great income. Excellent Meng has yet to contact the proper boyfriend, your family is very worried. New Year's Eve night,woolrich uomo, when Meng dinner together with their families, Lily network that is highly controversial ads on television began. In the ad, a young girl in the face every time his elderly grandmother, grandmother always repeat the same sentence: "married, right?" After a few inquiries, the girl began to make a determined effort,http://kiddie.jp, "I can not go slow slow to pick up, "select Help Lily network. In the final scene, the grandmother stuck nasal tube lying on the bed,giubbotti moncler, looked dying, the girl is wearing a white, and a man went to my grandmother's bedside, said: "! Grandma, I married it."

"After seeing this ad, I immediately blindsided." Meng said,woolrich prezzi, "It was my grandmother on the table there, except me, two unmarried cousin, his face changed." At the dinner table, Meng's grandmother, parents and relatives, the Lord began harping "Why do not you find a boyfriend," the old tune, once broadcast advertising, Xiaomeng going to be talking again. Thus, in the seven-day holiday,http://www.sgjy169.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, whenever I hear the music from the titles, Meng would hide out of sight of his family.

Although the ad was "forced" are women, unmarried men also can not get rid of the family's "ulterior motive." 28-year-old Zhang is home during the civil service, an unmarried Spring countries, it is often the parents "forced." "We're old,http://markt.vaart.nl/cgi-bin/vaart/markt/classifieds.cgi, you even have to consider the individual for the sake of our problem!" The parents said good-naturedly.

For Lily network advertising, Zhang said: "dating sites justifiable act of self-promotion,peuterey outlet, but also pay attention to publicity-oriented I think the concept of advertising Marriage passed quite right, completely simplified for the purpose of marriage 'to the family. account '. I admit piety is important, but ignored the personal freedom of choice, this is not necessarily a happy marriage. "

"Left men left women": the most important personality fit

And the community the impression that certain established the contrary,http://www.axiabridge.com/sunbbs/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=6&page=Lastseasonw, these are called "left men left women" does not exclude young singles entering marriage. 29-year-old Yue is the only large family of older singles,woolrich parka, home naturally, "encounter" all kinds of cross-examination. Small Yue believed to be between two people, "calls" and can not get married in order to get married.

If they could not meet favorite object how to do? Meng said that public opinion is generally accepted that women will eventually have to return home, "left women" concept based on the same reasons also stir. However, as a career woman, their income can afford personal life. In the future does not need a partner to provide food and clothing for the situation, she would pay more attention to fit two people spirit. Therefore, if not met the right target, he would prefer to continue single,http://gamsa.net/guestbook/index.php?item/create_form/1, do not hastily married. She said Lily network advertising, marriage has become the only value of women, independent women themselves as the new era,moncler donna outlet, it is difficult to accept this view. In real life, if you have loved ones as advertised grandmother like "forced marriage", not only that he will not give in,chaussures nike pas cher, each other's feelings will therefore be hit.

Jiayuan released "Marriage in China 2013-2014 Outlook Survey Report" shows that 38% of male respondents and 35 percent of female respondents said, "another character right" is a necessary condition for marriage, in the grounds In the most supporters.

Expert: Marriage should fully respect freedom

For the period Lily network advertising to convey "forced marriage" theme, and the Spring Festival to some singles who "clogging" of the consequences,tiffany roma, in the marriage service counselor for nearly a decade, Zhang Yang told reporters, because unmarried singles main focus on born in the 1970s and 1980s, China's first batch of new-child. Parents usually pour in their growth period, a lot of effort,parajumpers homme, but also used a variety of "acting on their behalf," after the children grow up,http://bbs.techcommsalon.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=3671559, this model will continue to focus on their love marriage. The so-called "forced marriage" is the product of this relationship.

In fact, do not need the family "forced", such as Meng and Zhang singles looking for a partner's personal wishes is still quite strong, but they themselves have made positive efforts to this goal.

Zhang Yang said that parents ignore the wishes of children, simple "forced marriage" will have some negative effects. He found that some had actively participated in various friendship dating singles but will be at the event after the Spring Festival in the "missing", because "the whole fear of being forced." He suggested that the parents had better not "forced marriage", but should fully respect the freedom of the children of the marriage; and singles should carefully combing mate requirements of marriage have a more realistic idea to get an early sweet love, and soon start a family. (Source: Beijing Daily)