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She look at foreign language websites outside the instrument, she likes to European and American countries, foreign and friends thought she married ...... these days are the days of college students report yesterday, Schilling had to find Ningbo Educational Psychology Research Association Xu Xiaohong teacher,http://club.miyazaki-mu.ac.jp/bell/joyful/joyful.cgi,nike tn pas cher,http://www.enochnj.org/pagegen.cgi, very painful It describes the happening thing in her daughter.
"We suspect that she psychological problems, but she and refusing to accept the professional help of a teacher." As she puzzled, while loss. Reporter Zhang Ping
Schilling told
Freshman daughter suddenly told his family: to go abroad to get married
Schilling's daughter Jiaozhao Ting (pseudonym), a "90", Ningbo. Zhao Ting as her name suggests, is the slim look. Last July, she admitted very good results in Ningbo a university,louboutin femme, enter the school's most popular international trade professionals.
"Could not imagine a good university, not long before the girl means nothing to complain about a local college, she wanted to go abroad." But that did not lead to Schilling's attention, then she observed, and now look at her foreign language website, foreign instruments, even chat are all in English. Before the Spring Festival, Zhao Ting received a parcel from abroad sent a ring and a cell phone, Schilling realized that something is wrong, but because there is no busy fine to ask. Before the Spring Festival, Zhao Ting suddenly told his family that he must go abroad, to go abroad to get married.
Suspected her daughter had mental illness: she will not communicate with the people around
Why Schilling suspected her daughter had mental disease? Schilling said that if she would like to go abroad alone, and there is no problem, but she has not, and students around the family communicate.
"In the beginning university, to assess what is fresh, girl school for several weeks did not go home. If we really wish she would go to the school sent her point home cooking." This day lasted nearly two months , Schilling did not find out any different. Until a weekend last November, as usual, she was planning to go to school to see her daughter, her daughter suddenly open the door back. Since then, as long as there is no test, Zhao Ting home almost every weekend.
"To the family, she did not how to speak, a man hiding in the bedroom reading the Internet." Schilling said, as a mother, she felt like a failure because her daughter did not know what to think.
Lin secretly asked her daughter's homeroom teacher,http://www.hacosuke.com/hacobbs/hacobbs.cgi, the teacher said, looking at the sun optimistic Zhao Ting school hardly participate in any community activities, and very few classmates, school often is a person table.
"Now, she has made it clear that it would not go back to school." Today's report from the school day is getting closer, Schilling do this anxious!
- Expert diagnosis
With too much text messaging and web chat, "90" lack of interpersonal skills and more
Ningbo Education Psychological Association Xu Xiaohong:
From a simple conversation, the current state of Zhao Ting mainly caused by neonatal not indications. There are many reasons causing suited newborn, interpersonal communication has become the most critical factor. Into the school relationships are unknown, it is very difficult to communicate. Especially those introverted students, eager to establish new relationships as soon as possible, this conflict,http://koutakuji.youchien.to/cgi/bbs12/yybbs.cgi, resulting in newborn anxiety, loneliness, psychological, and even some freshmen and because relationships do not evade groups, self-enclosed.
"90" are relatively self, not collective life, not taking care of others, people just want to be taken care of. Their means of communication too much instant messaging and online chat this remote communication mode,nike tn homme pas cher, more so they lack social skills and reality.
Recommend freshmen to learn to master interpersonal communication skills, especially to and from the country, the habit of different classmates. We must first understand the interaction between the two sides are equal and interactivity, is that you come to me, so as to win the most basic respect. Secondly, among the students learn to care, to learn to express their opinions and listen to the voices of others. Of course, but also learn not to care, learn to understand others, so as to maintain peace of mind.
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Ningbo three thousand students have "school phobia"
Gold Daily News (reporter Zhang Ping) primary and secondary school has been a few days, you can have the first grade Chen Ming (pseudonym), but how also refused to go to school every morning after getting deliberately dawdled, one to the school gate will depend refused to go to school, you would pull him howl. Yesterday, Ningbo Educational Psychology Research Association Xu Xiaohong said that this is actually a "school phobia", almost at the beginning of each semester of school, students will have a lot of different levels of demonstration of such symptoms. She estimates there are probably accounted for the students such symptoms 3 ‰ -4 ‰. Although the ratio is not high, but because of Ningbo City has 1.1 million students,http://jsjxyt.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=693472, so the number is still considerable.
Xu Xiaohong suggested that on the one hand, parents want their children to create a relaxed and harmonious family environment, not to the children to learn too much pressure is applied; on the other hand, the school should create a good learning environment for students, not to impose corporal punishment on students; and At the same time, schools should strengthen the mental health education for students, teaching them how to relate to people.
- Further reading
Freshman and sophomore students who married married increased significantly Why?
Background: Hangzhou Civil Affairs recently discovered that a former junior and senior students for marriage registration, and now even the freshman,nike tn pas cher, sophomore students to apply for marriage registration, but also unusual. It only Jianggan District Civil Affairs Bureau Marriage Registry statistics,http://wx.weihuiju178.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=114320, in 2008 the freshman, sophomore marriage registration of over forty pairs. According to the Haidian District Civil Affairs Bureau statistics, only 2006 registered marriages have 25-30% are college students.
How do college students, "university student registration of marriage"?
Pros: Since it is not illegal, why not get married?
Zhejiang Shuren University packages surname senior girls: competitive pressures in society now so big that some units are required to recruit people can not have children within a few years. Married in college, graduation,louboutin uomo, birth, giving birth and then work, and consequently so do not delay, but for women, the family is a good choice.
(Trend: "Men by family,http://bydbbs.cn/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=18561, by married women," "get a good job is better to find a good husband," the concept of intensified)
Cons: This is immature (majority)
Zhejiang University, a sophomore girl surnamed Wang: freshman, sophomore main source of income, or by their parents, even have the ability to feed themselves, or to college to learn the main. Even now I feel very satisfied very happy, that is the feeling of the moment. Really participate in social future, to live independently, it might find inappropriate another. Until then,http://phpwind.nodelog.cn/read.php?tid=144220&ds=1, such a marriage would bring unpleasant and even affect their generation.
(Evidence examples: When reading in Shapingba a university acquaintance of Ray and his girlfriend Iverson, a junior in April 2007, when a senior registration of marriage of two people, just over a year, the two divorced; In Nanjing, a sophomore college students is married to a senior divorce.)
